Hi new here so don't know all the codes. My 23yr old moved out at 20 to be a grown up. She has fallen on hard times recently after losing her job and needs a few months living with mum - no dad on scene since 1yr old-fashioned just to get back on her feet.
My problem is that shortly after she moved out I met the most wonderful man. We have a lovely life together and things were great....until now.
He doesn't want her with us. He has never had his own children or shared a house with anyone other than a partner. He is almost asking me to choose her or my life with him. He wants me to pay for her to go and rent elsewhere which I could but it would eat into my savings and says I'm selfish for bringing her to our house and causing him mega disruption. Life was great before all this and I don't have anyone to talk to.
Am I being unreasonable?
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Coops1972 · 26/04/2018 23:38
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