Hello, I’m driving myself mad by thinking about having a third child! I have DS1 age 3 and DS2 age 1. As parents of adult children, I’d really love your thoughts on bringing up three kids at the various stages.
I’m now a SAHM which I really enjoy. DS1 was a huge shock to the system, but DS2 has fitted in brilliantly and I find the day-to-day very manageable. My heart tells me I’m not ready to leave the baby days behind and the thought of a busy, fun family is appealing (in theory)! However, I’m very concerned that adding number three could throw us into chaos and make my very manageable life extremely challenging. I think we’d cope with the baby stage, but what’s it like splitting yourself across three children through school, holidays and teenage years? With two, I know my husband and I can take a child each for activities, homework or just to talk, but how does it work when there’s an extra one?! My sons get on very well at the moment and I really want them to be close as they get older. I also want them to have all the attention they need from us and to travel together etc.
Please share your experiences and help me make up my mind! My husband is supportive either way, but I spend every day thinking about it as I’m 37 and the clocks ticking...
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LittleTipple · 26/04/2018 14:45
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