I have 3 children 22, 16 & 14....and I’m about to start all over again with baby number 4 due in Jan 18.
My 22 year old still lives at home,he has a very good job and in the next couple of months will get a pay rise meaning he earns more than I do. I don’t currently ask for any house keeping but have discussed that he will need to start contributing £200pm...
My frustration is that he does absolutely nothing to help. I’m sick of picking up his clothes off the bathroom floor, he’ll leave clothes, dishes and rubbish on the landing and expects that I’ll just move it. If I ask him to help he either just ignores me or he moans and complains.
I know I’ve brought this on myself by doing too much for him but how do I change this now? It’s time for him to move out really but I don’t want him to feel he is being pushed out because of the baby either?
Ps both the 16 and 14 yr old do more to help!
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ChocoMunchi · 14/11/2017 23:57
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