My dd is 22 and suffers with social
Anxiety. Please if anyone can give me some advice I'd be grateful. Let me explain, in the sixth form she would hang out with a group of friends, although probably on the edge of the group. Anyhow there was one boy who she seemed to get along with quite well as they had the same interests, sense of humour and he was laid back. At the prom they danced had fun etc.. and then went their separate ways. Then out of the blue the boy made contact to go for coffees etc.. dd was at Uni locally. They went to the theatre which seemed like a date to me, but dd insisted just as friends. Dd thought everything went fine but apparently not. She didn't hear from the boy again until a friend set them up in a double date about a year later. He was very uncomfortable and only relaxed after a few beers dd just acted normally. Yet again she didn't hear from him for another 18 months, in the meantime he has joined the RAF which to me probably means he has grown up a bit. So here we go again, he has got in touch with her a month ago, chatting on line meeting up for coffee both getting on like a house on fire. Dd challenged him re the theatre visit and then their friendship going off the rails, as she had no idea why. He said it was all him he just wanted to focus on getting into the RAF and he cut himself off from all his friends. He met up with dd on Wed to chat about this and then came back to our home and stayed till late. Now what I'm worried about is will he do the same again? As I just can't figure out what's going on. She beat herself up re the first time he distanced himself and with her anxiety this is not good. So I'm worried for her. What does anyone else think? They get on really well, and he keeps coming back, so does he like her as just a friend or with the intention of something more? Because if it's the second dd is clueless! Sorry for the lengthy post. :)
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MrsTeapot63 · 19/08/2017 00:56
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