I'm really struggling accepting my youngest son as an adult. He has always been very close to me and shared his thoughts etc freely. He has just finished his first year at University and has come home for the summer break. He has recently obtained a lovely girlfriend too. He has become an independent man in the last year of being away. The first day he was back he sorted his stuff and threw out a lot of his childhood things. I saved a few things I feel in years to come he will like to look back on. But he didn't seem to see the importance of keeping them. He is a lovely kind, caring lad and I am so pleased he is doing well and has found a lovely girlfriend. But I feel so emotional all the time and feel as if I have lost him! Its so irrational I know. He has another two years at Uni, so he's not moving out permanently for a long time. I just feel like I'm turning into a monster future mother in law who thinks no one is worthy of her baby boy!! lol. I want him to grow up and move on but its so hard to let him do it!
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