I have worked out what kind of mum I am!

[LuckyC]

My 6wo PFB is asleep during the day without being somehow attached to me in sling or cuddle for the FIRST TIME SINCE SHE WAS 2 WEEKS OLD.

She is in a chair which you are not really supposed to put them in until they can support own heads but Fck That If She Sleeps - and that's what kind of mum I am, the Fck That If She Sleeps mum. Oh dear! Was gunning for the super-brilliant-stimulating-fun-slightly-eco mum! This is a BIG comedown!

[mrsflux]

no you're not!

you are a the F*ck That If She's content mum!

it's amazing what you'll end up compromising on. the best (and only useful) thing my HV ever said was don't worry about the little things.

you can still be a uper-brilliant-stimulating-fun-slightly-eco mum too! i think that's what we all strive for but probably dont quite reach every day

[LuckyC]

Thanks, mrsflux. V nice thing to say.