Hi everyone. I would like some advice on how to limit visitors to see our DS (5 weeks, first baby) without causing too much offence. I am overwhelmed with the needs of an early, tiny, non-sleeping, constantly eating baby and I keep crying with frustration when DH announces that yet another member of his family (large and local) 'hasn't seen DS yet and they will be coming round today at x.' Even worse, when he is on the phone to one of his family members, they ask when they can come round and he says a time, then says that he needs to check with me, sees me getting upset and then goes back and tells them that it isn't convenient - making it look like I'm the reason why they aren't 'allowed' to come over (which is true, but I hate being made to look like the 'baddie'). I would just love to ban all visitors for the next two weeks, but 1) DH wouldn't let me and 2) I still want my mum to come over as she cooks each day for us and then holds DS so that we can eat, which makes so much difference. At this point I am seriously considering walking out with DS and booking into a hotel somewhere far, far away for a while. What do I do?
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