Hello everyone,
I'm new to Mumsnet Talk and it'd be great to hear your views.
DS is nearly 14 months old and we gave him a comforter (the kind that is made of very soft cloth with a teddy head) when we were away on holiday few months ago in Dec. He has been a very good sleeper (7-7) up till then and has never had a dummy or comforter, but with the jet lag he had difficulty settling, so we thought a comforter might help (and it does!).
We only give him the comforter during daytime naps and night time sleep, and he doesn't drag it around. However, since around 2 weeks ago, he started to wake up 2-3 times a night pretty much every night when he loses his comforter.
DS sleeps in sleeping bag, but still manages to move around in his cot a lot when sleeping, and that's why often he will end up at one end, with the comforter at the other. In the dark he just can't see where it is, and then got very upset. He will sit up and cry until I go into his room and hold him in my arms where he falls back to sleep, before putting him down in his cot, placing the comforter in his hands, and then sneaking out the room with the minimum of noise.
He has no problem at all in daytime naps - happily cuddles his comforter, sucks his thumb and falls asleep on his own in his cot.
He did have gastroenteritis around the same time when his night waking started, and we did give him more cuddles and attention than usual.
He is over his illness now but things just aren't back to the way it was before. We had a video baby monitor and can see how he wakes up trying to find his comforter, crying and winding himself up so much that he couldn't soothe himself back to sleep.
We don't want to tie the comforter to the cot as DS just rotates everywhere and we're worried that there is the danger of him getting tangled up.
Shall we wean him off the comforter? But isn't it quite a good sleep association for him? We did try placing another comforter at the other end of the cot, but he just threw that one away. I usually wait for around 10-15 mins before going into his room - shall I let him cry for longer? Have read about Gina's sleep training but haven't tried that.
Any tips and advice that can help DS will be much appreciated. Many thanks in advance.
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DS waking up at night looking for comforter
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Barb2008 · 23/02/2010 14:23
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