18 week-old DD has not been keen on the car since she was about 4 weeks old, but it's been getting worse and worse lately. She starts to cry pretty much as soon as she's in the car seat and can get REALLY upset, scratching her face and sobbing in the most heartbreaking manner. If she's tired enough, she'll sometimes go off to sleep after a little while, but otherwise she just keeps crying - no sign of settling down on her own (the longest I've had to leave her like this was half an hour, by which point I was sobbing, too). As soon as I pick her up, she's fine.
It's got so bad that I avoid car journeys as much as I can. I just can't figure out why this is happening or what to do about it. We've tried:
- Me being in the back with her while DH drives. Works up to a point, but once she starts getting upset, no amount of attempts to distract her will work.
- Talking/singing to her constantly so she knows I'm there. This sometimes seems to make things worse!
- Taking the car seat out of the car before she goes in it so that it isn't uncomfortably cold.
- Dummies, toys, muslins, blinds/no blinds.
I'm wondering about disabling the airbags and having her on the passenger seat where she can see me, but since being in the back with her doesn't always work I don't know whether this is a solution.
Has anyone else had this experience? Did you find anything that helped, or is it a case of just waiting it out?