My dd1 (5 yrs) has become friends with a 7yr old on our road. They play in the street together and play at each other's houses. It's a bit of an up and down affair as they're both strong willed little ladies, but generally it's ok. Last week the friend's mum offered to take my dd1 to the shops with her. While she was there she treated her to a Macdonalds and bought her a big cup with her name on it. We gave her some money to cover it, although felt a bit miffed because we wouldn't have bought it for her and can't afford to spend what we don't need to spend at the moment. Today they offered to take her to B+Q with them (5 mins away - just a little trip out for fun to keep the girls occupied). She returned some time later - dd1 walked through the door with a bottle of Coke (we don't let her have coke), a lolly, and a DVD! She said she'd had a bun too. So what do we do? I don't want her feeling she needs to buy stuff for my dd (her dd is rather spoilt), and I don't want dd to expect it. I wish she'd not bought the stuff. So how do I broach it without sounding ungrateful or 'superior' ("oh we don't let our dd have Coke"). Am I fussing over nothing or would this bother you too? Thanks for any replies...
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neighbour's mum 'treating' my dd - what shall I do?
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traceface · 28/10/2009 16:35
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