My 2.5 yo DD is starting to ask questions about the world. We generally try and answer simply and honestly, just the question she has asked, but we are now sensing that some more difficult questions might be round the corner...
EG, she has asked me why I have hair on my "bum" and my legs, and I have told her it is what you get when you are a grown up. She is also very curious about boobies, and who does or doesn't have them, and if they are all full of milk. She also wants a baby to grow in her belly, like me. I have tried to explain all this is things for grown ups, and that when she is a big lady she might want to ask a man to put a baby in her tummy, but she is too little now. How do I explain gender differences and puberty and so on without coming across all 1950's and confusing her when she meets people who are trans? And how do I give her the basics about reproduction (I don't want to do "the talk", I would much rather it all just got talked about casually) without being too focused on hetrosexual traditional relationships?
Also, she has asked me what soldiers do. I just told her they march about, but soon I may have to explain the concept of war. She also wants to know about smoking and drinking. How do I explain why people do things that are harmful to them, without making them sound too much like fun?
Argh! The problems in bringing up a left wing liberal child! I don't want to get all lentil-weavery, but I do want to pass on certain values. Any tips?
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How do you answer "difficult" questions off your toddler?
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LissyGlitter · 19/10/2009 17:25
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