Does anyone have anything I can try at all to reduce biting and grabbing/pinching behaviour in a 12 month old? I feel he is too young for time out to work, I'm not sure he would understand, and don't want the playpen/cot/pushchair to have negative association - but I am willing to try it if it might help. Today he bit me really hard and nearly broke the skin (I still have a red mark now), I was shouting "Ow" "No" "Stop" and "Let Go" and even "Gentle" (He understands let go and gentle in the context of pulling hair, and stroking our cat. I don't know if he would make the connection to his mouth.) - he was completely ignoring my shouting and not even looking at me. DP suggested smacking him I really really do not want to do that but I must admit it would be my first reaction if anybody else bit me
I just don't know what to do. He seems to do it when he wants my attention - when I am sitting on the sofa and he wants me to come and play on the floor. I do play with him but need to do other things as well, like mumsnet internet banking, online shopping, sometimes just looking things up on the computer (laptop on back of sofa as he can't reach it to play with it) or even when I am sitting talking to DP or a friend on the sofa. I need to stop this biting before he bites somebody else! It's not teething - well sometimes it is teething but that is different, there are two sorts of biting he does, one is teething and one is him wanting something, sometimes food/milk but sometimes just me. How can I teach him a different way to ask for what he wants?
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12 month old biting and pinching - getting to be a real problem.
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BertieBotts · 11/10/2009 22:27
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