hi all sorry this might be long but pls give me some honest advice i know iv done wrong
i have 2 dc 1 from a previous reltionship that my dp has taken on as his own dc2 is ours together
dc1 was a really nice child and dc and dp was like joined at the hip and really close before ddc was born. but the day we brought dc2 home from hospital dc1 changed we tried evrything by spoiling dc1 so they didnt feel left out but dc1 has become a horrible child and ruins everything we do as a fmily when were all out dc1 does everything to embarris us as much as possible at home dc1 fights with dc2 and makes home life difficult dp works as much as he can to give us everthing and dc1 ruins it and throws everthing bk in our face dc1 naughty at school to the teacher says there a nightmare and has had to bring in a TA to do 1 on 1 with dc so the teacher can teach the other children dc not naughty as such at school just cant do anthing that dc been asked to do
this morning dp phoned and told me he had enough and cant do it any more and dont enjoy being at home because dc is allways doing something 0naughty
i was up set and told dc that if me and her dad split up then i would send her away i feel so bad that i instandly sai-d im sorry and told her that it is me and her against the world and it will allways be me and her as she is my baby but i cant belive how nasty i was to my own child i feel like i dont deserve her now and that i am a really bad mum im thinking of asking a family member to have her for the weekend so that we all get a break from each other as im a SAHM iand i dont get a break from the kids and im feeling really low at the moment
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amiabadmum · 05/10/2009 10:40
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