DH has never been hands on. never done a night feed (for either of our lo's), done about 2 nappy changes, never bathed or fed either of them, not taken them both out other than across road to park for half hour, never gets up in morning with either of them at a weekend/holiday time. As a result dd (now 11) and ds now 3 never look to him for help, confort, fun or much else tbh. needless to say dh gets offended, hurt and despondent about it and it drives me nuts. To me the reason is obvious - you get out what you put in. It causes dreadful atmospheres and of course, teh 3 yo must pick up onthis. DH is loving, adores both of our children but just doesn't get it. No point changing things now as it is met with much resistance and practically speaking it is mroe complicated than it is worth. What are your thoughts/feelings on this?
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Does DS really not like his Daddy or is it 'just a phase'?
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cruisemum1 · 02/10/2009 20:20
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