DS1 is 11, he starts secondary in September. He's got really clingy the past few months. it started when DH was away fro 4 months, and has got bad over the hols. My mother , as usual, is syaing "oh he's really insecure and you only ahve yourself to balme for that because you go out to work". Now I do 12 hours a week, spread over 4 days. I don't start till 9.30a nd am finished by 12.30.
I just find the constant draping and clinging and cuddling annoying. I know we should all hug our children, and I do, frequently, but this is all the time but its constant. if I'm washing dishes he will come and drape himself all over me and hang round my neck, or sit on my knee, or if I am lying down (which happens a lot) then he lies ont op of me or sprawls all over me. If I say "I'm going for a lie down" hes there crying that I'm not well and constantly asking if I'm ok, and hugging me and lying on top of me.
This has resulted in DS2 getting very, well for want of a better word "over dramatised" and my mum (again) says it s a cry for atttention becasue I am giving all ym attention to DS1. I can't cope with the way they are going on the minute, it's wearing me down and when I don't feel good its worse.
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Saltire · 24/08/2009 10:59
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