I have a DS aged three and a DD aged 9 weeks
Understandably my DS has struggled a bit with the new arrival. Although he is gorgeous and loving with his sister he has become moody and challenging with my DH and I. I have just read Unconditional Parenting and it makes so much sense to me. I have tried putting it into practice with some favourable results. Things were pretty awful sometimes with full blown tantrums and me losing it with him and shouting/being agressive. I was getting desperate as my DS is normally a happy, bright and fun little boy. I do not want to have constant battles with him.
My only problem is how to be this kind of parent in specific situations. I will list a few and maybe you can offer some ideas
He will not let me help brush his teeth
He refuses to get in the bath sometimes. I tried suggesting he didn't have to have a bath and then he got upset because he did want one but he still wouldn't let me take his clothes off without a battle!
He is not playing with his toys as well (something he used to really enjoy). He lies around looking sad sometimes and despite my best efforts to entertain him it can end up in tears. He asks for TV a lot more (I really don't like letting him watch too much). He is starting playgroup next week
I know I don't sound like a very conditional parent so please help!
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Unconditional parenting advice to help my little boy please
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roseability · 19/08/2009 10:02
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