I read loads of threads on here about parents who do x or y to teach their DCs a lesson. Take away privileges, remove certain toys, don't let them go on special days out. And sometimes theaten to do/not to do things. And miraculously they work! The child never repeats the action that the sanction was intended to prevent. How?
I do that. And I carry them through sometimes and it makes bog all difference next time. 1,2,3 just forces us to count minute fractions between 2 and 3. Controlled crying didn't work because you had to do it forever. Which defeated the object.
Anyone else have sanction-proof children?
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OrmIrian · 13/08/2009 15:06
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