was hoping Isomeone could give some advice on how to deal with first child sydrome
I've got 2.5 yrs between my 2 sons and the eldest (6) one is so dominant, tries to talk over ds2 (4), always want to go first at everything, not great at sharing, talks badly to him, and basically thinks he should have more of everything than this brother.
It's driving us nuts - he's such a lovely boy and incrediably loving but i'm finding his ways increasingly annoying since the holidays. It's not just me, his teachers for the past 2 years have said the same thing, he's very competitive, thinks he should always be first etc.
When he's confronted about these things it's like he doesn't get it,he shows no compasion for others, and doesn't seem to care whose feeling he hurts as long as he can at least try to get his own way. I noticed it when he had 2 friends over the other day, he tried to dominate it all and it backfied on him and they said they didn't want to play anymore with him - which i know is kids stuff, but i don't see anyone elses kids like this. I'm just worried that it'll make him unpopular as he gets older.
How should i deal with this? i don't let him get his own way, infact i often make sure he takes the last turn, just to prove to him he doesn't get what he wants.
any advice would be great thanks
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1st child syndrome - advice on dealing with it please
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myermay · 27/07/2009 17:09
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