....DS1 just turned three a few months ago. We had the terrible twos pretty much sorted, and now suddenly all our techniques are out of the window! Added to which DS2 is 13 weeks, so we probably have some adjustment to new sibling stuff going on.
So suddenly we have:
- kicking, fighting, playing games of killing etc (this I can cope with)
- complete disobedience and naughtiness rather than just toddler waywardness
- no fear of the naughty step
- sulking and lying around
- the whinging, god, the whinging
Any tips? tales of survival? I can't decide if we're too soft, too strict, too inconsistent, not tough enough, not nice enough, too obsessed with DS2, not paying DS1 enough attention, etc etc