My daughter is in reception. She's just started being invited to parties where parents don't stop, they drop kids off and return for them 2 hrs later. My daughter is refusing to go to any where I can't stay but looks so upset and tearful when I tell her it's 'a party where mummies can't stay'. She loves parties and loves her schoolfriends but just freaks out at the thought of me leaving her.
I've left her once at a party on her own, but i had to stay for first 40mins, lots of tears, bit of a scene and told me afterwards she cried silnetly whilst playing pass the parcel for another 30mins after I'd gone! (oh god, that kills me!)
Is anyone else's child like this? Mine seems to be the only one in her class who's shy in this way.
I've tried saying that I'll find a mummy at the party to look after her, that i'll stay for 10mins and make sure she's ok but she refuses.
Feel so sorry for her and don't want her to miss out on parties.
Any suggestions/experiences?
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shy 5yr old won't go to any parties from school without me...
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tinatutor · 14/06/2009 22:20
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