DH and I are going out with friends on Saturday. In order to do this we are staying en famille with PILs. Last time we went out (January) we had DS and DD in bed before the babysitter (a neighbour) came and it was all fine. DS will be no problem, he is used to staying at his grandparents but the dilemma is 10mo DD. She has never been put to bed by anyone except DH or me. Although she naps at nursery and my sister babysat one afternoon in March for us and got her to nap. Also she has not been in a travel cot since Christmas Day. Normal bed time is 7.30 pm.
So the question is do I book the restaurant for 8 or 8.30 pm and rush around getting ready while trying to put DD to bed. And maybe making myself late if she won't settle easily. Or do I book the restaurant for 7.30 pm, go out by 7 and leave my MIL to it, whatever "it" might be. DD will not have seen my MIL for a fortnight at this point.
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Babysitting dilemma - should we put DD to bed before we go out or let MIL do it?
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Bozza · 05/04/2005 16:54
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