A friend has asked me for some advice about her her ds (he's 3.10) but I have no experience of this. But I knew where to come! Here's what she says (they're in China btw, though not Chinese!).
"What do you do about other kids teasing your children? More specifically girls. Two of the girls who live around here are constantly teasing him, shouting at him and telling him that he can't play with them or on that slide swing, whatever. It didn't particularly bother me for the past year because they played in one area and I would just take Isaac over to play with a little boy the same age as him. He has now moved awy and we are just left with the girls. So now they tease him or shout at him and push him and guess what he hits them. So then theres screams and tears, Isaac hit me. I feel like saying, quite frankly I want to hit you too. But obviously I just end up telling Isaac not to hit them.
I spoke to their parents about it one day when they happened to be outside with them and they were both very apolegetic and told their kids to stop teasing Isaac. But mostly they are just with their Ayis who think the greater crime is the hitting and ignore everything else. I feel so bad for him he is so desparate for someone to play with after school and their are no little boys left here now."
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ponygirl · 04/04/2005 09:01
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