Ok this is going to sound silly i know!
DS1 is 10 and i have never had a problem leaving him with anyone like my mum or sister i left him for the first time with mum and dad when he was 3 weeks old...and went to the reading festival...Mind you i phoned mum every 10 minutes until she told me to bog off lol.
DS2 is 14m old and I have only ever left him with dp and that was for 15minutes...it was the longest time of my life and i felt like crying through it all. Now my sister, mum and dp are pressuring me into leaving him with sister tomorrow and going for a walk with dp even if it is for 30 minutes...I don't know that I want to.
They are so different (ds's) ds2 was born a month early weighing 5lb 15oz and spent the first 5 days in scbu in an incubator and i was not allowed to hold him, it took me 4 days and then me going mental in the hospital before they allowed me to hold him and bf him. The day after i began bf he was well enough to come home....i will stand by my belief that if they had let me feed him earlier then he would have been back home earlier...I say back home as I had a very quick birth (4 1/2 minutes) at home.
DS1 although 3 weeks early was a different baby and we were home from hosp the day after he was born...i didn't bf him...basically i was very different BUT I was also younger...maybe this has made a difference.
I am scared to leave ds2 as I don't like the thought of him crying for me, as I know the state he gets in when I don' pick him up when he wants me to...if i am doing something else for instance.
I just want to be with him all the time...
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TheLadyEvenstar · 29/11/2008 23:09
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