Hi
My ds who is 8 in December has just got in with a group of children in our street and goes out every day on his bike with them.
My ds has never done this before and has always stayed in and played on his wii or the computer etc, so he has always been in the safety of his home.
He is my only dc so this is all new to me although I do realise that mates and play outside is good for children.
However I just can,t stop worrying about him getting run over by a car on his bike getting abducted by a stranger etc, and if I haven,t seen him for a while I start to panic and think about children who have mysteriously disappeared and have then been found dead and then panic sets in and I just have to go out and find him to check he is okay.
These children he plays with only live at the top end of our street and are roughly the same age, but another two he sometimes plays with are further around the block and are older at ten years of age.
I feel quite silly when I have gone to check on him and find he is in their house having fun on the xbox and I am sure that their parents must think I am crazy for checking.
I also worry about if he plays with the two ten year olds as he goes off round the block with them and of cocurse they are older and probably have more outside play experience what if they lead him off onot main roads on their bikes without my knowledge etc.
I worry about him making his way home from their houses even though I know he could quite easily make his way home its only around the block for gods sake.The thing is I don,t think he has enough road sense really for that there would only be one quiet road to cross coming back from their houses however.
Please advise or reassure an paronoid mom when do we let go and try and relax about these things.
Sorry I am hopeless at anything like this.
If he plays with the children at the top of the street they do come out on their bikes and do mostly ride up and down the path but I have also seen theem come out into the road and I have tried to encourage them to remain on the path they also spend time in the ones garden alot on the trampoline.
Do you think children are old enough at 7 to go off round the block to an older childs house to play and is it okay to rely on them to come back without checking on them or would that make me an irresponsible parent to just let him go and just expect him back when he has finished playing.
I don,t want to show my ds up in front of friends by looking like I am treating him like a baby.
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Advice on playing out in street and on bike overprotective mom warning
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espares · 25/09/2008 10:46
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