I had my son when I was 18. I hated my father so didn't want DS to carry on his family name so I chose a completely new surname for him (as I was single, my surname was the same as my dad's).
The long and short of it is I gave him a name I thought would be unique and make him stand out, remember I was 18. I chose the surname Mercedes and the middle name Storme. (Don't want to give his full name out but the first name was modern but still fairly common).
It didn't become an issue until the last year of primary school when people started taking the piss out of him, calling him mercedes benz and asking he'd been named after a car salesmen etc. This hit a raw nerve anyway because DS doesn't know his dad.
Then when he started secondary school it got much worse, now they're saying stuff like "Your mum must be a right chav" or "is your mum called vicky pollard" etc. I named him before all this chav stuff became so prominant.
Whenever I see people taking the piss out of chavs now they always say stuff like "little chardoney mercedes" or "aaron storm" etc and I'm mortified that DSs name has been turned into a joke. It wasn't like this when he was born.
He's now realised its my fault his last name gets him bullied and is taking it out on me quite badly. I know its my fault but there is nothing I can do about it now.
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Riband · 19/08/2008 21:46
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