How do you draw the line between calling your kids a liar and recognising that what they're saying sounds unbelievable?
DS has just told me that a teacher was really rude to him in the last week of term. Apparantly DS had given a note (from me) to his pe teacher excusing me due to injury. He had a lot of time off pe last year admmittidly but it was all genuine reasons.
Anyway on this final occasion he says that the PE teacher said to him "I really don't care anymore, just remember that when you want a place on the football team, you can kiss my sticky, sweaty arse".
Thing is, DS1 is NOT the kind of kid to lie, he never has before and he is normally on good terms with the teachers so I can't understand why he'd lie. At the same time I can't see a teacher saying this, whether he was frustrated or not.
I have always told my kids I would believe them if ever they told me something that was bothering them but where do you draw the line?
DH also says he can't see why DS would lie, my mum on the other hand says I'm being ridiculous even considering it.
I don't want to let it drop but if I mention it and he is lying its causing to cause hassle.
What would you do?
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When to believe what a child/teen is saying?
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Tamachi · 16/08/2008 18:19
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