I'm expecting baby number 2 any minute now, and really want to wear the baby from the word go in the hope it will make for a more settled baby than DS was. I got into slings when DS was a fair bit older, but am better prepared this time around.
What I want to know is, practically - do you have the baby strapped on all the time, even if they're asleep, and you have the opportunity to have a bath, or a sit down and a cup of tea by yourself for 20 mins? Or is the ideal to have the baby held by someone all the time?
My other main concern is how this might affect DS. He's literally just turned 2, and after DH's paternity leave is over, it's just going to be me with the two children. I'm worried that if I have the baby strapped on all the time, DS is going to get really upset by it, as everything I read says to make sure you get quality time with the older child without the younger one so that they won't start to hate the younger one. Or sommat. I'm not reading any more books about anything as I nearly drove myself bonkers reading parenting "bibles" last time and am determined to learn from my mistakes!
Can anyone give me any tips - and can you promise me that it will pay dividends? I'd walk over hot coals if it got me an easier baby than DS was in the early days!
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BABY WEARING - I have a few questions re practicalities and siblings please!
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bohemianbint · 12/08/2008 20:16
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