ds2(4yo) and i just had a conversation.
he pulled away a bit as i went to kiss his cheek, so i asked him if he didnt like me kissing him anymore (was smiling, am not an emotional leech like that comes across in print).
he said he didnt.
so i asked if hugs were ok, and he said
'i dont like doing anyfing anymore.'
[btw, of course i am taking this all with a big pile of salt but still a wee internal [gulp] anyway, obv]
so i told him that i wouldnt try to hug or kiss him anymore, but that if he ever wanted a hug or kiss for any reason he just had to ask.
he replied that he wouldnt ever want one ()
so i elaborated by saying
'if you ever want a hug if you hurt yourself, or youre scared or you just feel sad, or even if you want a happy hug, you just have to ask...'
and he nodded sagely, thought, and said;
'i know those fings are girly, but i would still let you do dem if i am cwying'
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twoGsinBuggerOff · 10/08/2008 16:49
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