Feeling down at the moment and just wondering if like alot of things this is just a stage of parenting that most mothers go through, but its just not talked about? Ds 10mths in the next week.
Have had a busy weekend two family functions - but at both have found I have been the one that looks after everyone else's kids as well as my own, have been last at the food so only got the dreggs and eating while everyone else was clearing up around me (how to make someone feel welcome). Ds has been compared to the other grandchildren by the grandparents (not in a good way)and my parenting has been undermined by comments such as "he's always an angel for us" and "he should be at least crawling by now".
Today I had to que barge the buffet to get ds his lunch as everyone else had just jumped in, and yes I got comments. What ever happened to the kids getting theirs first!
I know I am probabley being a little touchy, but feeling really isolated and its like i'm not seen as me anymore I am just seen as ds's additional carer and family babysitter.
I never realised being a parent was so lonely.
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cupcake78 · 27/07/2008 19:38
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