I don't know whether it's me or something I'm doing but something doesn't appear to be normal.
I'm basically a SAHM (work evenings and weekends) and I have ds (9 months) all day during the week. Ever since he was born he's been really difficult to entertain and I'm sure I'm doing something wrong.
He's been clingy ever since he was born and has no interest in toys, and in the last month or so (since started teething) he's even more so! (I know this is normal though ) The problem is nothing keeps him happy, 4 days a week we do activities which gets us out of the house for an hour or two, but he normally whinges and cries through those, when we are at home he either is eating, sleeping, or grizzling at me. I know normally he wants my attention (which he can have!) but if I pick him up he struggles to get down again, if I play with a toy with him, after 5 minutes he's bored and no other toy can interest him after that. I read or sing to him but again after 5 minutes... so for most of the day he's wimpering as I desperately try to think of something new to entertain him!
When he does nap, I'm worn out (so usually come to mumsnet to try and feel like I have some sanity left!) but when he wakes up (usually after 30 minutes) it all starts again. I've tried entertaining him in the kitchen (pots and pans) with the hoovering and everything but he hates me doing something else.. so the housework gets done when he's asleep too. The ONLY thing that keeps him happy is this one damn tweenies video that I only let him watch when I'm cooking breakfast and dinner, and then I feel guilty that a solid hour of tv a day is too much at his age
I know I'm doing something wrong but I have no idea what it is, can someone far more experienced please help!!!!!
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lunavix · 31/01/2005 17:29
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