DD is 3.5, DS is almost 1. DD was great with new sibling until he became mobile but since then it’s been getting harder. DS wants to join in everything DD does and basically goes around trashing duplo constructions/train tracks/elaborate tea party arrangements etc. Obviously I do my best to stop this but DS is very determined and speedy and DD’s stuff is everywhere so impossible to avoid. At first DD would just sort of gently shove him out of the way but now it’s escalated to full on pushing, hitting and kicking, even when DS isn’t in her space.
I don’t know how best to deal with this before it escalates further. I’ve tried minimising it in case she’s just looking for attention (saying “that’s not very nice” then taking DS to another room) which just ends in DD running in screaming, I’ve tried sitting her down to explain that she can’t hurt her baby brother, and I’ve also lost it with her and shouted on occasion, but none of it seems to make any difference as it’s getting worse.
She’s not very good at playing by herself so the times when I have both of them are awful as DD will be demanding I play with her in some small world thing full of choking hazards while simultaneously losing it with DS if he approaches and/or me if I give DS any attention. Help!
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Sibling aggression - how to deal with this?
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Jujujuly · 14/10/2021 14:01
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