Please help, my 3yo girls dad winds her up to the point she is screaming for him to stop. The anger and frustration he causes her drives me insane. He thinks I'm an idiot always has so no matter how many times I have told him to stop and that he is clearly effecting her her, he tells me im being stupid.
Examples of what he does, she was watching telly and he kept snatching the remote of her and telling her he's gonna turn it off. After he kept waving his hands in front of her so she couldn't watch it. He says that her sweets/toys or what ever she has at the time are his not hers, he then laughs uncontrollably at her when she reacts which makes her more frustrated and angry. I have said multiple times that he can't do that and he is effecting her, even my child minder has seen what he does and has said to me he needs to stop yet he won't listen.
He was very much like this with me when we where together he got a kick out of pissing me of and would go to any lengths to do it, so I personally know how it makes her feel.
Please if anyone has anything info I can back up with on how this will emotinaly effect her long term and how wrong it is and nasty please let me know as he classes me as an idiot and won't listen to me.
Maybe even some one I can get him to talk to.
I'm on the verge of contacting social services or the courts which is the last thing I want, my daughter does lover her dad and he can be a good dad but i can't stand and watch him mentally abuse her any more.
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Charmlo · 14/10/2021 04:07
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