My child is now 6 months old. I got pregnant by a one night stand however I knew him briefly for two months prior.
He has 5 other children (the lady is one week older than my child). His other children are with the same women and they are in an on / off relationship. I’m aware that social services have been involved with his children in the past due to their mother and substance abuse. Currently I don’t think social services are involved.
I have a good job and offer my child a stable life. She is a happy and healthy little girl.
The father of my child did not want to be involved and we had no contact since I was 12 weeks pregnant up until this week. He has now decided he wants to be in her life. He is not on the birth certificate and I don’t want him having access to her as he is untrustworthy and unreliable. I don’t trust who he would have around her and that she would be safe.
I’ve heard along the grapevine that him and the mother of his other children are ‘off again’ and I feel that is the only reason he now wants to know.
If he takes me court to get a PR Order, how likely is it that it would be granted? I’m not sure if it will go that far as I think he will get bored and change his mind again. But he is saying that he will take me to court to be added to her birth certificate. I can’t explain how much this scares me. If I could trust him and his parenting skills I wouldn’t deny my child seeing her father. But I genuinely fear that she would come to harm as he would allow the mother of his children to be near her. (She is very unstable)
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Jade8886 · 20/09/2021 16:36
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