Hello!
So I'm hoping some parents who have been through this stage can give me some insight/ tips/ tell me when in gods name it ends...
My 2.5 year old is funny, lively, adorable, clever, I mean you get the picture. He's absolutely a joy to be around....when he's getting his own way/ when everything is proceeding in a way he is completely happy with.
If, for example, we need to do anything to a speedy timeline he goes mental. I give him 4-5 chances, warn him that we're going out, need to put our shoes on, need to put our coat on, change his nappy (whatever it may be) and he will just go berserk if he doesn't feel like doing it.
When I say berserk, its crying, screaming, biting, hitting, kicking! It started maybe a month ago and we're had no major changes at home. I've tried leaving him to thrash it out and sitting in a close spot, turning away slightly and waiting for him to come over for a cuddle, but it doesn't always work! in fact, yesterday he came over and proceeded to punch me.
I don't want to raise a spoiled kid but at the same time hate to see him so distressed and unable to cope with these new emotions.
I guess what I am asking is, is anyone else going through this? crazy tantrums at this age? and when do they "grow out" of it? (do they grow out of it?)
Tantrums are happening around 2 times a day atm. Doesn't seem to matter what we do to pre-empt them/ avoid them, the meltdown always seems to happen when leaving the house and just before coming back into the house!
Any advice would be much appreciated!
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2.5 year old tantrums...how to stop them?!
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Fearnecuptea · 02/12/2020 10:09
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