DD is a young 4 year old (end June birthday) and has just started reception, which she loves. She’s a very sociable and loving child, always looking to make new friends. She was always extremely popular at nursery so I didn’t have any concerns about her starting school.
The problem is she’s a bit too friendly. She shares a table with two girls she went to nursery with so isn’t used to keeping her distance from them (and isn’t expected to do so now) and before and after school
I see her being too tactile and trying to touch them and hold hands. The other girls flinch away. She also tries to talk to them too much and they walk away.
I find this very triggering since I didn’t have an easy time at school and I am petrified she will have the same experiences as me, which have affected my whole life.
I’m hesitant to ask her to modify her behaviour as I don’t want to to become self conscious but I suggested to her gently that she doesn’t touch other children, using covid as a handy excuse. But this clearly confused her as it’s contradictory to what she has been told previously.
Any advice for how to deal with this, even if it’s just ‘leave her to work it out for herself’? She’s such a sweet little person and it’s making me sick with worry. I have been dreading drop off and pick up and feel that I need to whisk her away quickly to avoid the situation so it’s turning it all into a negative time for me too
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Over friendly 4 year old
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TheChineseChicken · 15/09/2020 15:41
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