I know every toddler throws tantrums and moans, but my DD seems particularly ...... emotional and I am not sure how to react. She isnt verbal yet, but does turn to this low level moan every 3 minutes for every little difficulty she encounters. Some examples from today alone would be I put her in her tower to make breakfast (not sure what she wanted there), I got off the floor to go to the bathroom, she struggled to get her leg over her ride on, she couldn't reach something on the outside table, she dropped food off her spoon, she wanted her drink but couldnt reach it. The moans can very easily turn into a complete tantrum and I can never fix the problem. I would estimate she spends about 40% of her time emitting a low level moan. Its the sound of my life.
I am not looking for a fix. I have a lot of experience with kids and know this is normal behaviour, especially as she seems to have great cognition but can't verbalise things yet. My question is how do I deal with it? At this point I just spend my time ignoring her like I cant even hear her, but that doesnt seem to be helping. Distracting doesnt work either, nor does cuddling if it progresses to a tantrum. Does anyone have any suggestions about how to react when she moans like this?
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Very Moany 20 Month Old. What do you do?
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SqidgeBum · 17/07/2020 21:08
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