So I'm due my scorn child next month and I'm stressing about breastfeeding.
I had a traumatic birth with my first, won't go into details but I done his first feed which everyone said went well but then I was too poorly so he was taken for the night by the midwives and given formula.
When I was able to sit up the next day they brought him to me to feed.. again they said it was perfect, his latch was fine and we were naturals! I was happy and we went home thinking everything was great.
It wasn't great. It was horrendous. The pain was unbearable, my husband who has children already who were breastfed kept telling me it didn't look right. By day 3 my nipples were raw and bleeding and I physically couldn't take the pain anymore. So my husband fed him formula.
I saw a feeding specialist who said his latch was perfect but his tounge tie meant he was unable to draw the milk properly so he was sucking really hard causing my pain. She gave me a pump and advised I pump regularly until his tie is cut and then try again. I pumped religiously for weeks but I never produced any milk.. at best 5/6 drops at the bottom. They told me I needed domperidone (I know that isn't spelt right) on prescription from my doctors to help.
My GP refused to prescribe it, she told me it isn't licensed for what I was requesting it for she told me I'd been though enough with the birth, difficult recovery and that my baby was thriving on formula and I needed to start to relax and take care of myself and stop feeling pressured to do something that just wasn't working for us. So that was that.
I'm due number 2 soon.. if I didn't produce milk last time, will I this time? My boobs never got engorged.. people complain of how painful it is when your milk comes in, I never experienced that.. does that mean I didn't produce milk?? Pumping never produced anything.. so am I unable to breastfeed? I'm so confused with it all.
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hidingfrommyself1 · 13/07/2020 20:25
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