Hi mums,
I have been troubled by these problems since a while and finally I thought it might be good idea to share it with you guys and see if I can get some advices from you all.
My husband is sharing some photos of my child to his friends and family, this was never a problem for me until months ago something happened in the family.
A while ago, we have planed a family holiday to another country to visit my side of the family as some of them has not met my baby yet since he was born and we only have shared this plan with my husband's side of the family, not long after, we received someone's report from the child service, saying I have been reported going to a holiday with my husband, and we decided to leave the baby alone. We are still not sure what purpose it serves. Shocking for me as a mother to receive this tho, but it was easy to explain to the child service that we have planed the holiday for all of us three, we sent our tickets, bookings and it was fine after all. Due to this reason, we had fell out from the family, my husband was kicked out by his parents along with some other issues in the past. Not long after, one of the family members sent us a letter which is 20 pages long full of hate, wishing me and my husband to split. It was disturbing and confusing for me to acknowledge someone could ever do this to us , especially, from a family member. Since then, I have discussed with my husband, we do not share our personal plans, photos and important information in case something else like this would happen.
My main concern was make sure my child is safe, living without any this sort of the strange battles. I and my husband was married not to long ago, and we live far away from his family so I only met his family 3 times, it was sad however I felt I barely know them, so I am not too bothered by this situation. Like this, without much contact, then few months after til now, my husband is sharing all the photos we have again, which brought me to have a chat with him. He was not happy to share what they were discussing which I fully respect, but I mentioned only please do not share my personal information and our child information without letting me know in case something happens. Well, what I got was my things smashed on the floor by him and being shouted at for a while, he shouted he can say and share what the f* he want to anyone, it's none of my business. I don't really mind how he reacted to me, I fully respect his privacy, he might just feel not be trusted at that moment so he reacted overly. However, I'm not comfortable about what he told me, he shared a lot of photos, especially all the photos of our child.
Is there any law and privacy protection that I can seek for my child over this? Or I can only shut up about it like my husband said and wishing nothing bad will happen again?
Thank you for your time.
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motherwhocraft · 16/05/2020 20:41
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