Please help. I am at the end of my tether. We have been potty training my 3 year and 3 month son since April. He can wee and poo on the toilet and is very happy when he does however he has never said “I need a wee/poo”. He knows what he has to do and can go to the toilet if we catch him at the right moment. He is dry at night and even wakes us up saying he needs a wee!!
We have a week where we don’t have any soiled or wet pants then we get to a week like this. In the the space of 2 hours I took him for three wee’s which he did but in between that we had two wet pants. After 3 days of withholding stools he was going red and shaking in soft play. I put him on the toilet numerous times and he denied needing to go only to poo himself in the ball pool. Then when I try to get him clean he goes all floppy refusing to cooperate like a dog that doesn’t want to be walked.
He goes from being pleased that he is managing to go to the toilet to refusing to engage with the subject on any level. Nursery say he imperfectly able yet after a week of coming back in that same clothes we sent him in he is now back to 4/5 wet soiled clothes a day.
We have tried stickers, Poland App, chocolate bribery, toys, star charts, blowing bubbles, books on the toilet, potty in front of TV, potty not in front of TV, back in nappies to give him a break, praise, ignoring accidents, getting him to help clean up, choosing his own pants ….nothing is working. I actually feel as if it’s damaging our relationship, it is difficult to go out, I feel isolated and that I’m a dog something wrong, please can anyone help????
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tethersend007 · 10/09/2019 16:09
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