I have a 1 year old boy and I have been his primary care taker since his birth. I took off work for the past 1 year and have been with him 24/7. But he prefers his dad over me. I have given up so much for him and all he wants is to be with his dad. My husband spends 2 - 3 hrs with him in the evening and the rest of day he is with me. He literally pushes me away if I go near him when he is with his dad. It hurts so bad to be rejected this way.
I know kids go through phases of prefering one parent over the other but he has always preferred his dad over me. I have tried to think of why that could be but I have always loved him. I never used to get angry until his birth and now the smallest things can set me off.
It's not just with the baby, I feel like I lost my relationship with my husband too. We were really good friends before we had our baby and enjoyed spending time together. But now we hardly talk about anything other than the baby, it's been more than a year since we have been intimate with each other and we live like roommates.
I feel like my husband gained a new relationship with the baby and I am left all alone. I don't have any family or friends nearby either. I feel like I am being used by my baby and my husband to get their needs taken care of.
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GGS01 · 14/07/2019 13:14
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