Please be gentle with me. I couldn't hate myself much more than I already do. I'd be so grateful for any words of wisdom.
I've just (for the second time in a week) really, really screamed at DS7 to the point that I now feel sick.
It starts with a small row, he loses his rag really fast, and hard as I try I can't help but eventually completely flip.
I start just raising my voice and end up horrendous. Right in his face screeching and yelling trying to shock him out of it. Saying things I never want to say to him out of sheer fury.
The whole time he's just screaming right back at me. I can feel myself shaking with rage but I'm also so close to just bursting into tears the whole time. I can't bear it.
I start each row with the best intentions but when he starts I just can't control my emotions. My heart races and I feel almost panic stricken in the moment.
He flies off the handle about anything and everything, wildly overreacting to the slightest thing he doesn't like or agree with. And it just pushes my buttons so hard. It makes my feel anxious and fraught and I lose my temper.
I don't want to be this person, I don't want him to remember these moments.
It's utterly utterly awful and I'm so ashamed and sad. He's fallen asleep and I'm sitting sobbing on the sofa.
Has anyone felt like this and managed to stop themselves somehow? I think I might have to phone the doctor and see if I can get some help somehow.
For me, if not for him. I can't keep doing this.
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Please tell me how to stop shouting (screeching)
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Charliehummana · 29/04/2019 20:56
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