I should start by saying I'm not a new parent. DD is 3.9, DS is 17 months. So I've had a few years to get used! I'm just finding it all incredibly hard going at the moment. Both DC have recently had chicken pox, DS got it very badly. It's affected their sleep (and they've never been great sleepers) and DH and I are utterly exhausted. They are both grumpy too, which is understandable but hard going after another stupidly tiring day.
I work 4 days, DH is full time. Life is just constant. Work, kids, chores and repeat. We have no nearby childcare, recently my DF had a bad accident so that's been a big worry and selfishly, it means he and DM are less able to come up and help with child care.
DH and I barely have a relationship. There is no time for romance, date nights are a rarity, we are just surviving.
I feel constantly exhausted, keep reaching for the junk food , try to keep exercising but am gaining weight and it's depressing me.
Looking back at this I can see it's just been a very tough time. I just don't feel I have the strength to keep on coping with it all sometimes, it's bloody relentless. Of course I adore my DC and they light up my world. But I really wish it could get easier and it isn't. It actually felt like it was easier when DS was smaller, now he's a toddler he is into absolutely everything and it's non stop all day.
I look round at others and it seems they are all coping better and making it look a lot easier. Their DC go to bed on time, sleep through, eat their meals, behave in public. By contrast I feel a mess. I know I shouldn't compare and you can't tell what other people are going through, I do get that but argh!
Think I just needed to vent...
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ColourMeExhausted · 11/04/2019 20:30
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