DS is 3, he doesn't go to nursery yet but he has been going to the childminder since about 18months old.He has one main little friend there who is a couple of months older but they get along great, they really are little pals. DS has told me he would like his little friend to come and play at his house (not quite managed the concept of shared ownership yet) and I would not mind at all but for three things:
- as I've said on a previous post I am a hoarder and my house is in no fit state for other people's kids
- I don't know her parents except for nodding acquaintance at pick up time. I don't actually know their names, just "little friend's mummy and daddy" so not sure how to ask them- do I just go "um, would little friend like to come and play on saturday?"
- In addition to being a hoarder I also have massive social anxiety so afraid of them saying no and DS being disappointed.
Point 1 I can fix - my mum has a lovely modern, clean caravan at a very nice quiet caravan park about 10 minutes drive from where we live that she's happy for me/us to use whenever. There is a little playground and DS has lots of toys /books/ dvds there.
What I'm wondering is if I can engineer a way to ask, do you think they would say yes to little friend coming to play at the caravan for a few hours one saturday? DS is a nice little boy and I can't think her parents should have a problem with him. Is three old enough for a playdate where the parents aren't already friends? Little Friend is toilet trained and uses the toilet by herself so no problems with nappies or anything like that.