It used to be problems with DH & his behaviour that I posted about but things have massively improved there, thank God. I have always had a tendency to flare up with DD as we are similar in character & I am aware of my strong need to be right. I have got better at walking away whilst trying as calmly as I can to explain why but too often I end up bellowing at DD. We live in a semi so I cringe when I think about the neighbours!
I would welcome any advice that can help me not to reach the stage where I’m shouting. I think I have unexpressed anger from childhood & I am in a way struggling to be heard. I feel like that child that nobody took seriously (or that was how I saw it). That my feelings weren’t validated. DH was guilty of that but now he listens to me & I am respected. With DD I feel I am flailing around in the dark. I love her more than life itself but she pushes my buttons like nobody else I have ever known. She’s at that funny age where the hormones are kicking in too & I am going through the menopause so that all adds to the explosive mix!
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tigercub50 · 22/01/2018 09:12
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