First time poster here! I have a 23 month old and a nearly 6 week old.
Just wondering if anyone has any tips on how they have managed/coped juggling the 2.
I am breast feeding baby, which takes up a lot of time as he feeds a lot, and is fussy in between and doesn’t really want to be put down. He’s also very sicky and will only go to sleep being fed, quite needy really.
Toddler is very active, just starting to get up to mischief and test the boundries! And I feel guilty for not being able to spend much time with him. He’s such a lovely boy!
I’m very lucky really as husband is great, has been doing most of the housework, looking after toddler etc. He’s home in the evening to help with dinner/bedtime too.
He had four weeks off work and since been back I’ve had a lot of help from parents, so I’ve not really had them both on my own for a long time yet. But I still find myself stressing and worrying about how I am going to manage it when I do!
Part of me thinks I should just bite the bullet and just have them on my own without help so I can get used to it.
I had a c section too so only just being able to get back to normal, being able to lift toddler etc. Still can’t drive yet which also makes things difficult. Especially as toddler is at that awkward don’t want to go in pushchair, don’t want to walk, will only be carried stage!! So can’t walk anywhere with them both unless someone is with me to run after/carry him whilst I push the baby! I need to get out the house every day, can’t stay in all day as toddler gets bored and destructive and I go a bit stir crazy!
Anyway sorry for rant, but any tips/stories about how it all worked out and you are now loving it (!!!) would be greatly appreciated.
All I seem to be doing at the moment is googling how do I manage with a baby and toddler!
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LDH17 · 12/01/2018 05:40
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