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How long is too long to wait for an ambulance??

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doubletroublemum · 08/11/2017 00:24

My son woke up today with a really chesty cough. By the afternoon he had a high fever. And by bedtime his breathing has become really laboured and fast. I called 111, and based on his breathing rate and that I said he sounded as though he was 'panting' they decided to send an ambulance out.
Nearly 2 hours later and I'm still waiting. Confused In this instance would you cancel and go to A&E or keep waiting?? My poor little man is struggling so hard for each breath and I'm just sat here doing nothing...

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underkerstumbled · 08/11/2017 00:32

Ring 111 again and let them know you are still waiting for the ambulance.

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OpalIridescence · 08/11/2017 00:34

Call the ambulance yourself, now.

Please just do it, your son needs some help.
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GreatBigPolarBear · 08/11/2017 00:35

You can phone back and say he is deteriorating if you feel he is. Phone 999 if you need to. Otherwise, if you can get him to a&e fairly quickly then do that.
Hope he's better soon

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Katanna · 08/11/2017 00:37

Ring them again.

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Katanna · 08/11/2017 00:39

I meant ring 999

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gruffaloshmuffalo · 08/11/2017 00:39

Don't call 111. Once the details go to the ambulance service you need to call 999. They'll tell you how long a wait it's going to be. 111 won't know

I work for 111 and that's why we say after it goes to ambulance "if anything gets worse, changes, or you have any other concerns you need to call 999"

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OpalIridescence · 08/11/2017 00:39

Please call 999 for an ambulance.

My daughter wasn't labouring to breathe like your son when I took her to doctor 'sort of panting' The doctor called an ambulance right away.

Either there are massive delays and you can decide to make own way in or there was some sort of mix up and no ambulance is coming.

Call them OP

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Ollivander84 · 08/11/2017 00:44

Ring 999. If you have transport and there's a delay then make your own way

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doubletroublemum · 08/11/2017 00:45

Thanks for the advice I don't think he is deteriorating, just staying the same. But I will ring just to get an idea of waiting times...

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GreatBigPolarBear · 08/11/2017 00:47

I do think that if he's struggling for every breath he needs to be seen asap-stress this when you call (999)

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Ollivander84 · 08/11/2017 00:48

They may not tell you. Ask if they want you to make your own way, that will give you an idea. TBH if you've waited two hours, they're probably incredibly busy

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MarmaladeIsMyJam · 08/11/2017 00:48

My poor little man is struggling so hard for each breath and I'm just sat here doing nothing...

Ring a bloody ambulance! How can you say that and not ring for help??

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doubletroublemum · 08/11/2017 00:50

To the unhelpful poster above If you read the post properly you will see I am waiting for an ambulance... Hmm

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oldlaundbooth · 08/11/2017 00:50

You've called an ambulance, right?

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oldlaundbooth · 08/11/2017 00:51

Re unhelpful

Call 999 yourself and get one

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Ollivander84 · 08/11/2017 00:52

111 will have passed the details to 999. Ring 999 again to make sure it has passed and so they can retriage him so he gets the right response. Then go from there

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Theresnonamesleft · 08/11/2017 00:54

Drive, cab, call a mate. Any of these an option.

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DancingLedge · 08/11/2017 00:55

Breathing problems are high priority ambulance calls.
If you've been waiting 2hrs, it's probable your call has been incorrectly logged.
Please call 999

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Pancakeflipper · 08/11/2017 00:59

Can you drive or get someone else to get you there?

It could be lots quicker. Hope all goes ok

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Ceto · 08/11/2017 01:05

If you have the means to take him to A&E yourself, that's got to be a better option than waiting for the ambulance.

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khajiit13 · 08/11/2017 01:06

If it is an emergency call 999. My son has had similar issues before and 111 wanted to send an ambulance. My son wasn't at a place where I wanted to use such a resource so I drove to a&e myself within 20 mins. Far quicker/easier/cheaper.

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frogsoup · 08/11/2017 01:12

I'd agree - just head to A&E yourself. You could have been there by now - not your fault, btw, theirs! It feels like the system should not allow an ambulance to be called unless it's either going to get you there faster than you could under your own steam, or you need immediate medical intervention on the scene from paramedics before being moved. Two hours wait is ridiculous.

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Floralnomad · 08/11/2017 01:17

I’d take him yourself , we waited 30minutes for the paramedic car and an hour more for the actual ambulance in the night a few weeks ago , couldn’t take ourselves as I was too ill to move .

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Seeingadistance · 08/11/2017 01:24

I hope the ambulance has arrived by now or you've taken him to A&E yourself, OP.

Struggling to breathe is very worrying, and an ambulance would be the better option as that way they can get him on oxygen right away if need be.

If you're still at home - 999!

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FrankiesKnuckle · 08/11/2017 01:26

Ambulance control for your local trust will not be able to give you an ETA. No doubt several ambulances have been dispatched to you but cancelled for higher priority patients, hence the no ETA.
If you make your own way you will still need to call to cancel the ambulance.

Crews are similarly frustrated that demand far outstrips supply, that I can say hand on heart after a 10 hour shift turned to nearly 13 hours (nothing compared to a nearly 15hour night shift over the weekend)

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