Our just turned two year old has just climbed out of his cot. Luckily I was around, but he then started eyeing the stairgate. The obvious next step would be to get him a bed, and take off the stairgate, I guess, as falling over the top of the stairgate would be worse than falling without it. However, I feel absolutely sick with worry about the lack of barriers; we have a small landing and DS is really boisterous and fearless. We have tried to teach him to come down the stairs sensibly but I worry that he could run past and fall, or just forget everything we've taught him in the excitement of having new-found freedom.
Another issue is that he takes ages to to to bed at night and we have to sit at the top of the stairs until he's gone to sleep. He then wakes in the night most nights and comes in with us. We've wanted to change both these things but so far it hasn't happened. This new development means I definitely think we need to keep staying upstairs until he's asleep, for now, as at least that way we know he's safe. I'm wondering whether to put an air bed in his room so that I can sleep in with him for a bit, as that would mean he can adjust to the freedom of a bed, maybe get used to staying in his room all night, but can't actually get out of his room and anywhere near the stairs. Perhaps after a little while in his new bed we can remove the stairgate and teach him how to be safe, and only have me "move out" of his room when we feel he's got used to his bed and not having a stairgate? Is that crazy? Sensible? Likely to cause more problems? He still naps and I'm wondering if perhaps I need to cut these out or I guess have to do the same thing in the day and basically just not leave him alone in his room? He doesn't seem to understand when I tell him not to do things, or that they're dangerous, and I'm a SAHM so all of his naps are at home. How have others managed these changes with their two year olds?
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Help! Two year old climbed out of cot. What do I do now?
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PleaseHelpMeWithMyClimber · 29/10/2017 14:41
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