I feel DH is too harsh on our DD. She is pre-teen, he nags her constantly, calls her smelly and says she has yellow teeth from not brushing. He nags her to read more, do more homework, help around the house etc etc. All the usual stuff but I feel he is mean about it and while he is not wrong about what he says I feel he is too harsh on her and it is upsetting her. She is a lovely girl, tries hard, but like all kids is needs reminding about lots of things.
I have told him I think he is being to harsh and I support what he says but not the way he says it. He thinks I am being soft on her. She gets annoyed with me if I bring it up with him, says it doesn't help. But she is often in tears over it and I am worried it will have a negative effect on her self esteem.
When I try to speak to him it ends in an argument. I don't know what to do to make him stop being so critical of her.
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Hightechlowbudget · 18/08/2017 23:04
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