I'm exhausted with him. Every day, he pushes boundaries with everything.
He knows the rules for things, yet seems to go out his way to try a different way, or more so, his way.
Holidays and weekends especially.
He is an early riser, and I allow him to get up and go downstairs so that I can have an extra hour sleep. He knows he should get up, go downstairs, get breakfast, top the dogs water bowl up and then he can watch TV or play on his tablet. Every morning he does the opposite and goes straight on electricals. He is punished by removal of electricals for the rest of the day. The next day he does what he is meant to, I thank him for it and then the following day does the same thing, ignores everything else for electricals.
He lies about having done things like had a wash or brushed his teeth.
When we go out, he has to walk on the grass or on the very edge of the road, even though I constantly tell him to use the path.
He pushes his older brothers buttons all the time as well, I'm constantly having to stick arguements between them.
He gets plenty of attention, but at the moment it feels all negative. I've done fun 1:1 stuff with him, but again, he tries his own way with things and did the rules.
It's only a small glimpse into what he does, but it's a lot of small things that accumulate as the day goes by.
We are currently at a park, I've had to sit down as I can't take it anymore. I tried to do a woodland walk, signs everywhere that says to stay in the path yet less than half way through I gave up as he was hiding in the trees, and we are back at the park.
Punishments don't work with him, excessive attention doesn't work, I'm at a complete loss. My other two are not like this, one has autism and is easier to handle than his younger brother.
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8 yr old constantly pushing boundaries
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ALemonyPea · 20/04/2017 13:50
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