Due to a previous partner being a bit of a robot my only way of coping in the relationship was to shut down any feelings - positive or negative.
Fast forward a few years and I'm in a happy, loving relationship but was still didn't really get too emotional about life and was always envious of people who seemed to have more feelings.
I had my ds 3 months ago and I am really struggling with the overwhelming feelings I have towards him to the point where I feel that each day that passes I love him more, therefore all the other emotions such as guilt, fear, anxiety etc multiply with it.
I'm spending a ridiculous amount of time worrying about the future - him leaving home at 18, getting married to someone, me dying and him being upset, anyone hurting him, it's getting silly!
I think I'm doing a good job as his mum and don't feel depressed so not sure it's pnd but does anyone have any advice or words of wisdom as to how to deal with this? I don't want to think things were better before he was here but in terms of my mental stability, they were iyswim. I did wonder if it was worth talking to someone as my hv has suggested but I'm not sure they could do much.
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New mum overwhelmed with emotions - help!
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elmo1980 · 16/04/2017 00:18
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